You may have noticed there is a lot of intensity, even aggression, on social media lately. Between the pandemic and the urgent demand for racial justice that has erupted since the murder of George Floyd, the ground is shifting beneath …
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Don’t Give Up Hope: Using Acceptance & Enthusiasm to Heal Our Troubled World
Iām sure people from every generation have felt this way, but Iām worried. From my perspective, the state of the world is troubled. It feels worse to me than any other point I can remember. Even setting aside the menace …
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Dear Lin…
Dear Lin, You’ll never see this, but I just have to write it. Stunned by your virtuosity and humanity, Alexander Hamiltonās genius, the music, the lyrics, the actors’ brilliance, the game-changing style and casting, the zeal with which my fellow …

Compulsive Liars: The Truth About Lying
“Youāre a despicable liar!ā These words, shouted by my 11-year-old cousin, John, were etched into my mind some forty years ago. Not because they stung, but because I was so struck by Johnās impressive use of the word ādespicable,ā and …

Confessions of a (Narrow-minded?!) Liberal: Using Friendship to Heal the Political Divide
Chad (not his real name) and I dated in high school. Now weāre friends on Facebook. We do the normal Facebook things, like sending happy birthday wishes, sharing and commenting on cute old photos, and retelling funny stories from the …

Empathy: How it Can Help Us All Right Now
In the aftermath of the most contentious election in recent history, many people are talking about the need for empathy in order to heal our divided nation. Facebook posts are flying around that charge us to rise above the rancor …

Living Mom’s Life?
“I think I want to be good.ā A warm tear rolls down my cheek. My ten-year-old and I are watching the climactic scene ofĀ Descendants,Ā a new movie from Disney Channel. The girl uttering this revelation is Mal, daughter of Maleficent.Ā She is …

What ‘Inside Out’ Can Teach Us About Loving Our Kids
The other day I recommended the movieĀ Inside OutĀ to my friend, Cynthia, as anĀ intervention. Her favorite niece, Emily, is going through puberty. The sweet little girl who used to love shopping and doing craft projects with her aunt, is now moody …
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